I knew exactly this was going to happen. That's why I said it was tricky to say it right and said up front I didn't mean to offend anyone or make anyone feel they couldn't post here. So you can interpret it however you want saskia, but what you just portrayed in your last posts is grossly incorrect. Don't put words or thoughts in my mouth when i clearly said what i meant and intended. I wasnt putting arbitrary limits. I was making sure there were no limits by anyone. Jeni said she felt bad spilling her emotions here when so many were still struggling to get sober. All I wanted to express is that no one who has sobriety and is working on the next issues should feel bad about posting that here because they feel bad others are struggling to get sober. This in fact is where it should be posted.
I am not going to not support someone because it could be interpreted offensive though. I feel confident in what I mean and won't allow you to rile me up.
I'm also not going to get into a back and forth about this all day.
I hope everyone has a good day.