Q ,
My life has calmed down , it is very peaceful but i do have the feeling of now that i've found sobriety what am i gonna do with it (to paraphrase an old song ) .
Some things like getting healthy and finances are moving forwards .
I find the practaice of acceptance useful in my "loss of control".
Then trying to bring a spirit of magnanimity/equanimity to the up's and the down's, those results of not being in control that alcohol and sloppy thinking deluded me into thinking were things i was in control of
Where i find myself now is thinking more upon where ones focus and action should be directed . Where are the points of power in my life ? and quite how much should i actively persue changes .
More questions than answers i'm afraid Q and more about me than you .
you are not alone, we're all here traveling along the way
Bestwishes, M