BB,
Last night at my Al-Anon meeting the topic was Anger. Two things really stuck with me, that anger is always about me. It is about how I feel regarding someone's actions, inactions, statements, etc. It is about me. Also, the depth of anger is usually related to the degree to which I feel my boundaries have been violated.
You didn't cause it, you can't cure it and you won't control it. By trying to get "them" off the streets, but making sure that "your" man isn't affected looks like trying to control it.
The best I can offer is to pray on this before you act. If you pick up the phone ready to dial, say a few more prayers before you do and let your HP guide you along the right path. There is no way to know how this will play out, and it is not within your control.
Peace,
Petunia