My Ah is a crack addict and I know how difficult it is. If we want to stay sane the only choice we have is to: keep the focus on ourselves.
Chasing them around town only adds to our insanity...It is not going to make us feel any better to go thru their pockets,check their cell phone records,have them busted,force them into rehab,or beg them to quit using.....
I sometimes pretend that I don't even know him. I go about my life as though he does not exsist. I just make my plans and stick with them. It was hard getting started I did not want to do it. I wanted to chase him around town and go through his pockets and bitch at him about money and dope....but, I need to keep a roof over my head and food in the fridge and I could not do it if I was constantly worried about what he was doing. I don't have to guess what he is doing and neither do you. You better get a plan for yourself my sister and join in with the living....
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