"How far down does he have to go before he hits rock bottom?"
Unfortunately, some do not have a bottom. My mother is an alcoholic, has been drinking for
over 65 years....big time...never been in recovery and has no intention of doing do, she will die
with a drink in her hand.
Work on you, read the stickeys at the top of this forum and cynical one's blogs.
I am sorry to say, all you can do is pray and go about the business of living your life.