Thanks for the update. Awesome that your husband went, too. My wife attended a few meetings with me some years back, and it was an eye-opener for her to discover so many people, from all walks of life, who lacked the 'off' switch like I do.
The pursuit of drinking over job,family, health is aptly described as selfish, I think. Rational Recovery refers to Addicted Spouse or Significant Other, or ASS for short. Rather fitting, I thought.
