Originally Posted by tjp613

You realize, of course, that since he has been using ever since you've been together that you really don't know him.....right? My son uses heroin to escape the emotional challenges in his life. He has the emotional maturity of a 14 year old. Take away the heroin and he's lost. He has no idea how to manage the ups and downs of every-day life without the crutch of drugs. He's a sweet, gentle guy but beyond that he is most definitely not the type of person I would choose for a life partner.

Just my $0.02.