Originally Posted by
MsPINKAcres 
One of my favorite sayings in recovery is "If you want something different, DO something different"
great words of wisdom given here ~
I agree - go and do something different - live your life Happy Joyous and Free ~ do your best to not allow his attempted manipulation to bother you
Yes - trying to do something different! We spoke today - kind of had to, he was offered a new job in a different town a couple hours away (I knew about the interview, etc. so despite all this I asked him what was going on when I hadn't heard). Apparently we are moving (again) in a couple months. I like our little place here and I'm not psyched to move, but he will be travelling for work and I will be able to visit when I can.