I spent a lot of time on this site in the period after my husband left me, it was 4 years on 31st January and I am very happy to say I have moved on. No, I do not have another partner, but I am in a good place, apart from lifes normal issues, like older parents who worry me like mad...but when I first came on this site, I did not believe I could get past the betrayal of an alcoholic and his cold dismissal..you can and you will, honestly it is true...read my old posts...I can vouch for my recovery.....
I won't be visiting this site again for all the best reasons, but I wish everyone the very very best and thank you to this site and its participants..What can I say, time is a healer and we look back with hindsight..but whatever you do, look forward...it is worth it...