This really spoke to me, as I was pretty much a loner for a very long time. I too thought asking for help was a sign of weakness, of low character strength. It was a kick to my ego when I came to treatment and AA, asking for help. I knew I couldn't go on trying to do it myself.
I have since seen the value in friendship and asking for (and giving) help. Asking for help is a sign of strength. No man conquered a nation on his own. I shouldn't think that I could tackle my alcoholism on my own. Both are formidable tasks. Today I truly do appreciate the other men and women in my life who have helped me on my journey.