Hi Sunshine,
I was a bingedrinker too. The most dangerous effect of binge drinking is kindling
Kindling (sedative-hypnotic withdrawal) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, meaning that each withdrawal will get worse.
In the beginning of my drinking "career" I also could have 1-3 beers and quit, but I would drink heavily on certain occasions. Then after a few years I could only go on a binge, social drinking was not an option. Between that I could go sober for weeks, even months. And in the end binges became 4-10 day drinking sessions from morning till evenings, going into acute withdrawal when I quit.
Your tolerance for alcohol will increase also. There is no other option than to quit. Too bad it took me almost 12 years to discover this.
Make a plan, whether it's AA, AVRT, SR, science and stick to it.
Good luck!