I have found I get kinda squirrelly around milestones, so I am not going to recognize sober time In meetings. If someone asks me today how I am doing with not drinking, I'm going to include my entire amount of sobriety, and just say I've got around 4 months. Because the fact of the matter is I do. I know in aa they look at it like we lost our sober time. Well we each work out program differently. And I didn't lose my sober time. I have had a couple drinks in 4 months time. And that is a victory in itself!