Lexie, I agree whole heatedly with what you are saying. What the program has given me is a set of tools that have allowed me to change my thinking. I am comfortable enough with myself and my beliefs that I don't feel threatened or put off when someone shares how God has given them the strength they need to deal with the types of situations we have all experienced to one degree or another.
That wasn't true when I started. I was in a state of crisis and at that time all the talk of God and higher powers seemed like just one more roadblock to any hope I had of getting back to a normal life, whatever that might be.
My goal with this thread was to let those who are reluctant to try Alanon know that you can still attend and find courage,strength, wisdom and hope even if you don't have the same beliefs as the majority. Recovery is possible no matter what you believe or don't believe and that there are others who are like you and have been there and have found sanctuary in these rooms.
Your friend,