View Single Post
Old 01-29-2013, 07:50 AM
  # 9 (permalink)  
Lost3000
Sober since Jan 1, 2012
 
Lost3000's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Colorado
Posts: 1,583
Originally Posted by MadameX View Post
She should have let him put it back. Looking back I use to do the same things and my boyfriend would be like ok just the one. I wouldve preferred him to have said No your not buying it or Im leaving.
And how would that go over? I've been there too, and while I can agree with you, I think that it would've ended up in a fight and a huge resentment on my part. I asked my husband, why didn't you say something? And he said, I did! He also said, look, you needed to find your own way. No one can tell you what to do. He's so right!

Honestly, back then, if he said he was leaving, I'd say, ok! Because getting drunk was wayyy more important to me. Or, I would have put back the bottles and then found another way.
Lost3000 is offline