Hey Avery, welcome to SR, this site is wonderful and I know you'll get plenty of feedback here if you need it. Everyone's situation is different, but I think we all relate to the withdrawals of anything, and it is rough to get through. You may need to seek help from your doctor, and be honest, it's the best thing, and they HAVE to keep your information confidential, HIPPA Law.
We can't really give medical advise, but I know a lot of people will tell you to check out detox or going to a hospital, though it sounds like you're weary of telling your husband what's going on.
You certainly have some hard choices you're going to have to look at. Avery, I wish you the best and we're glad you found us. Good luck and hope to see you around, keep posting!!
Oh yeah, and another thing, have you considered maybe hitting a local NA meeting, you may find a lot of good information there too. You can even just sit an listen at an "open meeting", and if you don't like that one, try another.
