Originally Posted by
dollydo 
Ok, so what if he screws up or leaves rehab, then what are your bounderies with him? I am not concerned about what the police will do, that is a given....what concerns me is your past history of no solid bounderies with this guy.
for some sick reason I was ok with him staying here because I really believed he wanted recovery and leaving the program would show he doesn't and I would be harboring a fugitive and could get thrown in jail and lose the children and this new job Im working on. so right now, I say that I would go no contact right away. I did all of this stuff this winter because I was trying ro get him back into treatment. I know it was wrong, but if he leaves the program early then my justification for what I did is thrown out the window