Originally Posted by
cynical one 
Lily,
What boundaries are you willing to enforce and what safety nets do you have in place in case he:
1) Doesn't go to rehab on Monday?
2) Goes but checks out a few days later?
I didn't set any and let him stay until he got in. hmmmmm I have just finished reading through all of my old posts because I found myself forgetting all the bad this boy has done and my clouds are turning pink again instead of stormy. the state has set the boundary if he leaves. They presented him with a choice: 6 months jail where you will most likely be able to continue to use and rack up more time, or 6 months rehab where you will be drug tested every day but be able to play your piano if you are clean and follow the rules. If he were to choose to leave the program early or gets kicked out for any reason, then the police will be notified immediately and the moment they find him he will be thrown in jail.