Thank you
Thank you all. I pretty much know there isn't much I can do, it's just frustrating seeing him go through this. My father and exH are alcoholics and I know how it can distroy ones life (and the lives of those around you). To complicate matters, the girlfriend (who I thought would be a voice of reason to my son) just turned 21 last night and was badgering my son to go out drinking. To his credit he told her he didn't want to go and that he hasn't drank for two days now.
He'll be over today (Thanksgiving). I wish I could make him see that he has so much potential and that alcohol will just be a roadblock for him. Guess I'm looking for the magical words to make him stop. If only those words existed.... :sigh: