Thank you ladies for coming out in full force with all the great advice and words of wisdom. I knew I could count on you! I agree that the experience will be tough at certain points (like NOW) and probably when I look back after this baby comes it will be bittersweet because ill have my little one to love and what an experience! I already know that part will be amazing and beautiful. I don't expect it to happen right away and I am going to adjust my expectations for being super mom AND super sober chick AND super wife / gf, student, etc... You are correct that its probably going to make me crazy if I try to do it all.
Thanks again all of you. Any input is helpful and makes me feel so much less alone. Big hugs from my soon to be big belly and I.