Hi girl! I have a 16 yr old and a 4 year old...I was not sober during either of those. I have to say ENJOY THIS EXPERIENCE!!!! You will not get it back girl! Im so glad to hear that you are sober now....keep it up. Unfortunately I was not, am my kids endured a lot because of my using. This is something I can't take back for them and it hurts. When I got pregnant with my now 4 year old, I was miserable, bored, and depressed because I put on so much weight.....looking back, it was not worth it and I regret taking that for granted. Goodluck and keep smiling girl!