I think dr. Mate proposes "the system" should treat addicts with compassion/ kind love.
Not that their homes/family didn't provide enough love and compassion.
I don't think that the blame is put on the mother, I would say it's put on circumstances.
This article reminds me that Alcoholism/addiction is a family disease. My mom was a
total codie from her dad being a total addict. I do not blame my mom, in fact I thank
my mom for being a loving person who welcomes new experiences and tries to find
solutions to any situations that arise. My mom was a really strong person. A good
person. But perhaps not really emotionally available?
I also worry that I might be raising a codie or an addict.
I really like that dr. Mate has worked with Ayahuasca and is at least interested in
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