Curmudgeon, Electrical Engineer, Guitar God Wannabe
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Where the mighty arms of Atlas hold the heavens from the Earth
Posts: 3,403
Chloe,
Forgive me for not being familiar with your story. When I come on here lately, I usually just skim posts, so I'm not all familiar with newer members such as yourself.
When you reach the point you said you have reached, there's usually two ways things can go. You can either continue doing the things you're doing, or you can make a change. And the great part of this fork in the road is you get to choose which fork you can take.
See, we can't control what the addict does. We can't make the addict see things we way we'd like them to see things. And it's not our job to do that. But we can decide how things will go for ourselves...if that's in fact what we choose to do.
You have 24 posts under your belt. I'm amusing you've read some of our famous sticky notes. I'm also assuming that you have some cognitive awareness that what you're up against is pretty powerful. So, what are you going to do?
Do you want to continue to be part of a problem?
Or, do you want to find a solution that works for you?
ZoSo