I can see the different sides of advice. I'm leaning towards ladyinbc though. Over the years, I've seen him act in a back-handed way and slight friendships.
Iamnoone is looking for the bright side which is a good way to be and I appreciate the positive input.
I guess I simply needed to vent.
My other good friend has been very supportive , yet continues to drink. I'm ok with that. There's never any pressure to follow suit. That has been very helpful in not feeling like you have to isolate yourself.
Thanks for all of the input, peeps