I have an old friend. We used to drink together. Last year she went to the hospital,then rehab. I was still drinking every day at the time however, I was miserable. She called me after she was back home and asked me to lunch. I told her that I thought it was a bad idea because I will drink. I did not want to undermine her progress. She understood and insisted she would be ok. I still wouldnt do it. I can now because I quit. If this drinking friend doesnt want to hang out with you it may be in your best interest.