maybe Chris has been placed in your life to help keep you sober? ok, ok, i know that sounds dorky...but there is a reason. All you can do is be a good example and advance in your job right now. you sound like a nice person, i like your tone and demeanor.
I have a new boss (doctor) since last year....she is the exact opposite of the previous surgeon I worked for for 11 years...sigh, i have tried and tried....i wish she would leave, she has to prove something and runs over the principles for her own gain. she is dangerous and i dislike her immensely. I have catty thoughts, angry thoughts, but i hope that this too shall pass and she will fold her tent in a year....or find another BF...although i don't think men like her much either....