Originally Posted by
alia 
I asked if he was thinking about going and his response was "I probably shouldn't right?" but all I said is that he should get all the information and then make a decision..
I haven't read the other responses sorry if I'm repeating.
I find his answer to your question interesting. He didn't say "yes or no". Maybe he is questioning that he shouldn't go.
I know for me being an alcoholic, I don't and won't put myself in a situation where there is a chance I might relapse. I can out for dinner to a restaurant and I'm okay if my friend wants a drink. Going to the pub and watching my girlfriends drinking and shooting back shots? Nope I won't be doing that. However, I am only 5 months sober so maybe I shouldn't be giving advice haha.