Hi Alia,
Feeling uncomfortable expressing my opinions with my loved ones is a red flag for me. I really like the saying, "Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don't say it mean." As long as I'm adhering to that rule, I shouldn't have to guard my opinions against anyone I love or who loves and respects me. My opinions are not expressed as orders to obey, but as loving perspectives to consider. I wouldn't share if I didn't care.
You may be right that he falsely asked for your opinion and only wants you to say what he wants to hear. I wouldn't assume that is the case. But, if it were, would that behavior not cross a boundary of yours? Just something to consider...
Take care,
Fathom