Originally Posted by
lizatola 
Anyway, what are you going to do for yourself while he's gone?
I think just continue in my daily life - see friends and keep busy. To be honest, I am at a really peaceful point right now and understand that there is a chance he will decide to go. And when that time comes I will just have to say "okay" and carry on. Actually, we have been talking about getting engaged and I think this will be a good insight into his mindset currently. You know, I used to want to save/protect him. Now I just want him to act like an adult and make his own choices and then live with his consequences.
I just don't really understand how someone in his position would think this is a good idea? A week-long bachelor party? In another country? Surrounded by alcohol? How in the world........but I know I will never understand. I am such a homebody and drinking has never held any significance in my life.
Keep the feedback coming! So helpful, as always!