It would be really wrong to see the four best divorce attys in town for a consultation because once you did, none of them could represent him. That would be dirty....
Ha! I learned that watching The Sopranos.
Liz, I waffled for a long time on what to do, and ultimately it came down to a safety and liability issue where I realized if something happened to someone else due to his drinking, I would, as always, be left holding the bag. I was done being at his mercy.
(Now I'm just mourning all that's lost! Which is its own battle.)
Bravo to you.