Originally Posted by
ZiggyB 
Maybe you're a masochist? ;-)
Wow, that hit me the wrong way.
Florence, I do know what you are talking about. I think it's about validation. Can't think of a better word to describe it.
But yes, we did (do) love them. I can only speak for me.
I don't recall your whole story. I don't know if your ex is in recovery or not. So I really don't know how to respond.
Just know that the feelings that you have are normal.