I need advice
I have been dating someone whose ex is an alcoholic. When she drinks she calls him. He has not told her about us, and refuses to be my friend on Facebook because he says she will harass me and his children who are not hers. He also states that she calls his place of employment. And has threatened to kill herself if he dates anyone, so he is worried that she might hurt herself. Though she does live w a man. We have been seeing each other for four months. I just found this out and was very hurt and mad. She lives out of state. And I feel he is enabling her and letting her still control his life by not telling her. And also choosing her over me.
I wanted to ask if I'm bring selfish, or do I have a legitimate concern, never dealing w this issue before hand. How do you think he should handle this?