Originally Posted by seek

And I agree it is his life - BUT the way he lives his life affects other people. I don't believe people have the right to adversely affect other people (this is a spiritual belief). I believe in Quantum Physics - the Butterfly Effect - so everything affects everything else.

His counselor, who was strictly AA by the book also taught him that whatever he did was in isolation and had no affect on anyone else and if they told you it did, they were just being "co-dependent." Which I think is a crock of B.S.