I, we, have no plans of supporting her. Even if we wanted to we can't.
We plan to see her Saturday. I will call CPS if I feel her child is in any danger. I'm also not going to waste my breath trying to convince her that she needs to get her stuff together. I won't try to convince her of anything. She's like talking to a brick wall. Even though she's 20, she acts more like she's 14.
The drive will take about and hour and half. Plenty of time to pray. Now if I can just get hubby to remain calm.