Originally Posted by
MidnightBlue 
SR is the least judgemental place I've ever seen. Don't be afraid. You can be yourself here.
This is so true Windancer. I think there are a lot of us on here that have done some pretty stupid things and although I can only speak for myself - judging others is the last thing I am qualified to do.
You may get advice and opinions that you do not necessarlity agree with but as the saying goes "Judge not lest ye be judged"