It's like weddings.
It can be done in ten minutes in a courthouse or church with the couple and two witnesses, or.....
Sometimes people end up breaking up, or postponing the wedding for years so they can obsess over the details, disagree, argue, go into debt over it, you get my drift.
Planning and plotting and hand wringing isn't the same as doing a thing.
I distracted myself from actually quitting for a LONG time trying to make sure I was doing it "right"