My advice: try to take it easy, take small steps, take it one day, hour or moment at a time. I didn't devastate my life overnight, but making my recovery #1 has meant that in turn, I've been able to deal with issues given time; some fell into place when I asked for help, advice and let go of trying to control the outcome. Definitely put in all the footwork that I could. AA is a part of life and way of life for me now, that's what works for me
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