I try to remember the saying "As you think, so you go."
If I stay positive, if I think positive now without expectations but knowing I can handle the outcome either way, if I make my heart dance...life dances with me.
Things may work out or not, like the job thing. But life has taught me that I am being led to good things, so it's better to dance and enjoy the journey than sit in disappointment of not getting the job I wanted....because the job I eventually get will be so much better.
This dance is all about timing, patience and letting yourself be led. Soon as I try to lead, I step on my own toes...never fails...it ain't pretty.