There've been times I was neglecting my real life for SR...I had good motives but I was being a little oblivious to Mrs Dee....
I learned to step back and get a little more balance in my life and a little firmer on my boundaries.
I didn't have much trouble doing that cos I love my wife - but if I had, I think support's important in that process, right after accepting that whatever it is really is a problem.
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