So AO was gone for the entire day. It was nice and peaceful. 1/2 thru the day he called... but i did not answer. After six calls he messaged he.wanted to talk to our son. I dialed the number he was at when he answered i put our son on the phone and didnt speak at all.
AO came home later in the evening. I kept my distance and was respectful. 20 minutes after coming home he starts telling me how fake and plastic i am and i am only pretending to be happy.
After hearing him repeat.this to me over and over - i.finally and.calmly said " i am being true to myself. If you dont like it you can ignore me or leave."
It stopped.
The kids went to bed and all hell broke loose. Disgusting name calling, threatening to steal my stuff... telling me he hoped i would get raped walking to the store.... wild accusations.. on and on.
It has been quite a test tonight. But i passed with flying colors. I did not react.
But i am worn out just.listening to it.
It has been over.an hour and i think he is finally.done.
Carrie.