Also I have learned so much from this site. I have learned that addiction can effect the rich the poor, male, female.. I have had some issues with myself for not "seeing" her addiction. I was blaming myself for the struggles the rest of her life will be. I can honestly say now after I have read so many of these posts that I had NO way of knowing I have never used drugs, I never saw the signs before. So I am saying Thank u all for the help you have given to me !!