Unfortunately...he has no shame. Takes pride in being an ass. Urinates in my bed. Eats my food. Contributes very little. I lost it this past weekend. Told him im no doormat. However made the best if the holidays. For family sake. I've read books... To try and justify and learn about the effects to him and all he encounters. I can't tell truth from lies. Loves me... I think not. Has threatened that I am his.. If I try to leave him it will be bad.