Well.. Here goes... We met. Asked me to be his girlfriend. . Told me he really was a good guy then I find out he gave me herpes. No apology. Simply said he wasn't going to deal with it. I ended up devastated taking partial blame. And decided to try and make a go if it. Feeling as I was damaged goods. After reading many posts... He is your typical self centered selfish alcoholic. Im looking for strength and support. I don't know why I stay with him. Fear I guess...