Update, well last Feb I did go to that party, and wound up drinking, completely unplanned of course but I just got a compulsion and didn't fight it. Results were pretty devastating, went on a 2 month binge, I am sober 8 months again now.
Sooo, I guess it depends on the individual, but I won't be going to any clubs/concerts/parties in the near future unless I take an antabuse first!