Originally Posted by
toxickizzes69 
Somehow, some way, everything turns into my fault when we argue. And then there are the threats of him commiting suicide if I leave him.
When I was drinking everything was everyone elses fault never mine. Everytime I relapsed I could find 100 reasons why and it was never my fault. The bottom line is when we are drinking we don't care about anything other than our booze and ourselves. And we are good at making others feel sorry for us.
Don't buy into it. My daughter finally had to realize that she couldn't do anything I could only help myself. She did give me a few good kicks in the ass I can tell you that!