In this fit of hatred spewed at me, I was so devastated that I fell into the sickness and yelled at him to have his stuff out of my home by tomorrow night, if that's really how he felt about me, and take care of his family by himself.
He threatened me that I would never see my grand children ever again.
He may just be trying to pull his cards and play you...Trust me I guarantee you that when he needs a place for those kids he will come to you..don't let him buffalo you....He has to know what you do. Sometimes ya just got to push them out the door and let them figure it out on their own.
Been there done that and when they are really ready to commit they may come back with a different attitude.....:ghug3