Val and Bunny I am also sorry you both had to go thought such similar suituations durning your childhood.
I was 6 yrs when it happened but took me until I was a teenager to understand it was wrong and when I told my parents (17 yrs ago) they made me think I was trying to cause trouble I also doubted it really happened, the uncle moved away (but I would have to see him at weddings, party's etc.) it was all brushed under the carpet and along with my drinking problem and the Jimmy savil case splattered everywhere is the reason I beleive it resurfaced 4 wks ago.
And again my parents don't want to beleive it.
Thank you both, just for letting me know I'm not alone x