Waste, the sad thing is I don't think I need to give them an ultimatum I think they have already made that choice by ignoring me and if it was not for my son b'day I don't know when I would have heard off them.
I'm annoyed they had to phone my husband to tell him they were coming, part of me want to go out this evening to avoid seeing them, but why should I make it easy for them.
I'm angry and I'm going to try and use this anger in a postive way..