Hi mary, welcome to SR.
If you're having a difficult time stopping the wine, you've found the right place! You'll find a lot of support here from people that are going through or have gone through what you are right now.
Finding things to occupy our time is pretty common. Personally, I used AA for support and to occupy my time. I've met some great, life-long friends there ..... plus I was able to actually stay stopped and my life is much, much better.
There's a book that I found helpful early on ..... it's called Living Sober. There's some great suggestions in it.
Glad you found us.