AA is about alcoholics helping alcoholics. We can not be their solution, their "go to person" and we can't possibly understand.
He is only around 60 days sober, his addiction is still trying to control him. IMO, its best not to engage with him during these times. He needs other RA's that can help. As a fellow codie, these conversations sent me into a tailspin and made it harder for me to work on ME!!