Choublak you're probably right my nights were filled with over 100 texts to anf from this person and he filled the time I would be drinking with positive time. He would say things like "you are an alcoholic you know you aren't missing out on anything even though its a Friday night just talk to me forget the bar..".
I don't know how to cope. Plus the way he shot me down for another girl thru text then told me he doesn't want to hear about it if I'm upset just to stop texting was rude.
I'm in early sobriety and everything is so confusing. I don't know how to take care of me. All my friends are gone now absolutely will not go back to drinking friends. Yes this was my boss but he is a year younger.